Seems about time to summarize what I learned when my first marriage died. I learned three really key things that help me enormously in my second marriage. They have also helped a lot of other husbands and wives rediscover the best parts of their marriages.
- When you find yourself distressed by something your mate does or fails to do, Assume Love.
- When you find yourself needing more than your marriage provides, Expect Love.
- When you disagree with your mate, Find Third Alternatives.
I am doing a free teleclass on how to Find Third Alternatives on Wednesday, October 5, 2011. The time is 6pm PDT / 7pm MDT / 8pm CDT / 9pm EDT.
How frustrating is it when you realize the two of you are on opposite sides of a decision? There is a way to an agreement, not a compromise, but an option that will please you even more than winning. It’s called a Third Alternative, and this class is all about how to find yours.
To receive email notices of all of my upcoming teleclasses, and to get the phone number for this one, please add your name to my mailing list at www.EnjoyBeingMarried.com.
Hi Patty,
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Kelly, I frequently mention the Survey here. I’m sure my readers will enjoy the blog, too.