Seems about time to summarize what I learned when my first marriage died. I learned three really key things that help me enormously in my second marriage. They have also helped a lot of other husbands and wives rediscover the best parts of their marriages.
- When you find yourself distressed by something your mate does or fails to do, Assume Love.
- When you find yourself needing more than your marriage provides, Expect Love.
- When you disagree with your mate, Find Third Alternatives.
I am doing a free teleclass on how to Find Third Alternatives on Wednesday, October 5, 2011. The time is 6pm PDT / 7pm MDT / 8pm CDT / 9pm EDT.
How frustrating is it when you realize the two of you are on opposite sides of a decision? There is a way to an agreement, not a compromise, but an option that will please you even more than winning. It’s called a Third Alternative, and this class is all about how to find yours.
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