I just read an interview of Ashley Madison’s founder. It’s a website for those who decide to cheat on their spouses but can’t find a partner on their own. I had long wondered about the brand name, which seems aimed at women, not men.
Indeed, it is. The UK version of the site has more than 825,000 members, mainly married women aged between 38 and 42.
“Our brand really resonates well with a married woman, 15 plus years into her marriage who doesn’t feel that celibacy should slip into the marriage at this time.”
– Noel Biderman, quoted by Danielle Demetriou in The Daily Telegraph
Celibacy is no fun, but arranged infidelity requires deceit, lying, breaking a vow, a health risk, a personal safety risk, a pregnancy risk, and the possibility of making one’s spouse and children truly miserable and self-doubting.
Surely there are simpler, less soul-crushing ways to avoid a sexless marriage after the 15th anniversary.
I thought I would ask all of you who read this blog to suggest a few in the comments here. Put a dent in Ashley Madison’s and divorce lawyers’ profits by sharing your experiences or creative ideas. This blog gets a lot of search engine traffic, so whatever you can offer will be read by thousands of hurting people just when they need it most.