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New Year's Resolutions for My Marriage

I have two this year:

  1. Find more creative Third Alternatives when we disagree - We disagree a lot, so I will have lots of opportunity here. A good Third Alternative combines delighting my husband with getting what I want, always a pure delight. I intend to reach out to my creative friends and my readers to come up with even better alternative whenever we think there are just two and we don't agree on either of them.
  2. Finally launch self-study courses on our website - How does this improve my marriage? Well, first it means more income, so we can do more of the things we love doing together. But more importantly, it makes me smile, even gets me dancing around the office, and that delights my husband a whole lot more than any self-sacrificial dish washing or floor scrubbing.

Now I really want to hear from you. Is there anything you intend to do this year to give yourself a stronger, happier relationship with that terrific person you married or pledged your life to? Click on that Comments link and tell us!

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