The model for flourishing as a person includes five elements, according to the Father of Positive Psychology, Martin Seligman: Positive emotions Engagement Relationships Meaning and purpose Accomplishments The last part of PERMA is Accomplishments. The road to accomplishment is what researcher Angela Duckworth calls Grit. Psychologist Heidi Grant Halvorson, author of Succeed, offers some...
Meaning Matters
Continuing with Martin Seligman’s take on positive psychology, we come to the fourth element in PERMA, meaning and purpose. This is defined as being part of something bigger than oneself, something that will outlast you, something that affects more than just you. It is nice to share this with your spouse, but it is not necessary. You can pursue your own connections to something meaningful...
Why You Need a Relationship or Two on the Side
Continuing our series on PERMA, Martin Seligman’s model for flourishing, we look at Relationships, the third of the five sources of well-being: Positive emotion, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning and purpose, and Accomplishment. We need relationships. We crave them. When they go wrong, we swear we do not need them and will be better off without them. Yet most people who divorce will marry...
The Engaged Life, after You Marry
As I mentioned yesterday, I would like to look at the latest model of human flourishing, PERMA, and what it means for how we can enjoy being married. According to Martin Seligman, wellbeing stems from five sources: Positive emotion, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning and purpose, and Accomplishment (PERMA). Yesterday, we looked at how to get more Positive emotion into our lives when our spouse...
Strengthen Your Marriage with a Video?
Positive psychology researchers continue to study what we can do to lead more enjoyable lives. Martin Seligman tells us we flourish by adding Positive emotion, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning and purpose, and Accomplishment (PERMA) to our lives. I would like to look at these to learn how we can enjoy being married over the next few days. Positive emotion comes from remembering our past...