ArchiveOctober 2012

The Need to be Appreciated

T

Do you ever find yourself wondering whether your husband, wife, or life partner appreciates your efforts ? Do you ever get angry, wanting some gratitude for all you do? Me, too. It’s human. And it’s manipulative. And it has a funny boomerang effect of making it harder to appreciate you. If you feel underappreciated, do less. Free yourself to be loved and appreciated for who you are...

A What If Marriage

A

What if you could have the marriage you really want? What would it be like? How would you feel? What could the two of you create together? How willing would you be to give your all for such a union? How much of what you’re trying to change in your current marriage would actually take you there? In the marriage you really want, is it necessary to keep score on who took care of which chores...

Teamwork between Partners

T

Are you good at teamwork? Do you communicate goals and strategies well? Do you dig in and do whatever needs doing? Can you take direction as well as giving it? Do you enjoy a job well done even more when you share the glory with others? Guess what? Not everyone does. Some love to be a star. Others can’t imagine that there might be some other goal or strategy than they one they are dutifully...

Berating Your Beloved

B

There are so many times when we believe the person we committed our life to should do something but doesn’t. It happens even in the best of marriages. After Brenda bought Christmas gifts for all of Gary’s nieces and nephews, she was dumbfounded that he refused to even accompany her to her cousin’s caroling party. When Gillian grew up, all the men in the neighborhood raked leaves...

For marriage book reviews and books by Patty Newbold, the author of Assume Love, visit:
EnjoyBeingMarried.com

A Book Recommendation

A

I have a great book to recommend to you if you’re trying to Assume Love and enjoy your marriage more. I was reading a post on Scott and Jenni’s Surrendered Marriage blog about assuming love this week, and one of the comments mentioned it. The commenter is another marriage blogger, Sojourner, writing the Not Easily Broken blog. The book is The Art of Possibility by Ben and Rose Zander...

Patty Newbold

I am a widow who got it right the second time. I have been sharing here since February 14, 2006 what I learned from that experience and from positive psychology, marriage research, and my training as a marriage educator.

Assume Love in Your Inbox!

Read About

Recent Comments

Popular Posts

Visit Patty’s Other Site

Enjoy Being Married logo

Archives

Social Media